Separated and sdating your spouse
That’s not easy to do when your spouse is telling you it would be better if you were just friends or to give him or her “space.” Clients often need a lot of guidance at this stage because their emotions make them want to react in a way that just pushes their spouse further away.Especially when your spouse is first separating, the connections you make by agreement will be very weak.Doing that at this time would just break the new emotional bridge that you have started to form.
Only then will it be time to start doing activities together.
Accept responsibility for your own decisions, and accept the potentially dramatic consequences of your actions.
your spouse to come back or work on saving your marriage need to be set aside for a bit.
The main reason for this is that before your spouse desires to be with you, all attempts to convince will just result in rejection and a stronger resolve on your spouse’s part to end the marriage.
It would be like trying to convince a child to eat liver because it’s nutritious, after he or she has had to eat liver every day for several years.